Thursday, October 13, 2011

Turtle vs. Hare

The turtle and the hare discussion comes up quite a bit in running.  Are you a front-of-the-pack runner?  middle-of-the-pack?  back-of-the-pack?  You may have heard the phrase "slow and steady" wins the race.  Well, I'm pretty sure the steady part is accurate - did you see Patrick Makau's splits when he set the world record in Berlin???  1:01:44 first half and 1:01:54 second half.  But as has been proven time and time again - fast and steady wins the race.

It never fails that if you mention you ran a race, someone will ask you how fast.  I remember after my first marathon, which I finished in 5:12, having someone the next week say "oh, you ran a marathon?  what does that take, like 3 or 4 hours?"

I started out as a back-of-the-pack runner and have slowly crawled up to a middle-of-the-pack runner.  I am fairly confident that I did not hit the genetic lottery with regards to speed, and seriously don't even have thoughts of every becoming a front-of-the-pack runner.  Not even sure what I'd do up there! 

But here we are all living in the blog world together - super speedies winning races and age group awards, middle-of-the-pack constantly striving for their PR, and back-of-the-pack looking for the strong finish.  I'm thrilled when I see someone Boston Qualify, even though that's something that really isn't even on the radar for me.  I'm just as excited to hear of someone struggle through every step of a 7 hour marathon and finish with their head held high. 

The point here is... we all have our own trophies!  Whether those trophies be an award, a PR, or just the pride of finishing - we're all out there striving for something better.  It's so easy to get caught up in this person or that person's pace.  And I'm not going to lie and say it doesn't happen to me too.  I won't lie and say I'm not a bit jealous when I see a new runner right out of the blocks hit a 9:00 min/mile that I've struggled for 2 years to hit and can still only hold for probably 4 miles.  And yes, occassionally it'll hit a chord when I work my rear off training, and see someone that didn't put in nearly as many miles, just naturally push through much faster than me.  But with all that said, I know my competition is ME.  I know that I'm here to impress no one but myself. 

Ask those who know me, I am extremely competitive... Running is a funny sport, though.  It allows us to be really competitive without minimizing anything else others are doing.  Sure, I've picked out random people during races and tried to keep up with them or maybe pass them at the end, but at the end of the day, there's no one that would upset me if they finished before me.  The only thing I judge the day on is whether or not I performed to the best of my abilities.

In the blog-world where capabilities are so varying, it's sometimes easy to forget when Speedy-McSpeedy-Pants says they had an awful run where he/she only posted 8 min/mile that it in no way diminishes your excellent run where you managed to get 12 min/miles.  It's important to remember that people's triumphs and disappointments are with their own performances.  I don't know how many runners have mentioned tanking a run and their time was still much faster than mine on a good day.  Remember to take the lessons, celebrate in their triumphs, share in their disappointments, but remember that your race is your own!

(And yes, I purposely slipped in an MCM finish photo... since I somehow keep forgetting that I have another marathon in just 17 days.)

21 comments:

Terzah said...

Great post! The variety is what makes it great. I need to remember that when I feel jealous of the speedier-than-I folks out there. :6)

Suz and Allan said...

This is a really great post and something that I need reminding of from time to time. There will always be someone faster!

Kortni said...

Love, love, love this post! It is a wonderful reminder that I am I and that is what I need to worry about when I run. Thank you!!

Julie D. said...

This is why I love running... I'm competing with nobody but myself. The running blog world is such a cool thing because we are all cheering each other on to reach each other's PERSONAL goals. We are all different. Our bodies are different, our training is different, the way we race is different. So much to learn from each other at all levels. Love watching people of so many different levels, achieve their goals!! Great post, Lesley.

Teresa said...

This is great! Thanks so much for the encouraging words and reminder that I don't need to feel bad about my run just because it's not as fast of someone elses.

Michelle said...

Love reading your thoughts on this! Very encouraging!!!

{lifeasa}RunningMom said...

Awesome post and a great reminder that our real competition should indeed only be ourselves.

I too get down at times when someone runs at a faster pace than me with less training. It seems if I put in so much, I should be the one in first, but that isn't necessarily the case. I need to remember to take pride in my accomplishments and not to get discouraged by others. I am not the genetically-equipped fast runner as speed was never my thing. Endarance was so I will focus on working on perfecting MY marathon and MY pace to set MY PR's!

Julie said...

I'm with Julie - ultimately we are competing with ourselves. We CAN compete with others, but the truth is in how we personally progress!

Melissa C said...

Great post! It really helps to put things in perspective.

Jason said...

great post and you are correct in that you can only train for your race and race your own race and not somebody else's. I tell people that all the time.

Army Amy* said...

I always ask myself, would I rather place or PR. Without hesitation, I'd rather PR. It's all about competing with myself!*

Tri4Success said...

Glad to hear you weren't jealous of my 9min/mi out of the gate earlier this year. ;-)

Seriously though, this is very accurate for running and for triathlon as well. It's what draws so many to the sport. Cycling on the other hand .... well, let's just say there's no glory to be found in the back of the pack there.

SupermomE12 said...

GREAT post as always! I think that this is the key as to why running is so awesome and why the running community is so supportive of each other... we are all competing against ourselves and our own abilities, not really against each other. No matter who we are there is ALWAYS going to be someone that is faster and people who are slower, and it's all about going out there and beating your own demons and pushing your own boundaries and setting your own PRs. :)

track coach and adorable wife said...

Ok, you are right, this post is perfect for me!

Junie B said...

does this mean that if we actually run and stay together at DWR, you are going to put on the afterburner w 100m to go so you can beat me? ;)

great post and yay for MCM!!!!!!!!!! so close!

Jen @ Run for Anna said...

LOVE this post! Great reminder of what running is all about.

Rene' said...

great post today! I needed this:)

Lauren said...

Well said! It's something that hard to remember sometimes, but what I do like is how supportive runners are of each other.

Stephanie said...

So well said I love love love this :) Meanwhile I will see you in 14 days then :) yayy

Book Dragon said...

not only am I a back of the pack...I'm still walking! True, I've been faster during training but haven't had a race yet to test my new "speed"

Fruit Fly said...

Amen!

My delusional fantasy would be to run a race, go back to "real life" and not have the first questions be "Did you win?" or "Okay, so what. What are you doing to do a full?"

Nothing like riding a high and then having every non-runner just try to dump on it.